What’s your life change score?

How many of the following things have happened to you in the last 6 months?

  1. Death of a close family member or friend
  2. Major personal injury or illness
  3. Major personal injury or illness of family member
  4. Got divorced or broke up with long-term partner
  5. Got married
  6. New child
  7. New sibling
  8. Child left home
  9. Started a new serious relationship
  10. Imprisoned
  11. Retired
  12. Lost job
  13. Financial state changed
  14. Took out a major mortgage
  15. Foreclosed on a mortgage or loan
  16. Got a new job
  17. Began or finished school
  18. Moved to a new place
  19. Changed schools
  20. Took a long vacation
  21. Multiple disappointments around big personal goal
  22. Completed a big personal goal

Reply with your number, and any other big things that have happened to you recently that you think are about equal in impact:

 
92
Kudos
 
92
Kudos

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